Visiting My Daughter
by Jenna Wiley My only daughter, Jennifer, lives in
Santa Fe, Texas, near Galveston and Houston. I had not seen her for
sixteen years, although we talk on the phone frequently. Jennifer lost
her sight twenty years ago as the result of a car accident, and has
learned to cope with her blindness, although she has never had any blind
training, which I wish she had. She is married and has a daughter,
Tabitha, who is now seventeen and starting her senior year of high
school. She was a student last spring when her school had a serious
shooting incident. I am thrilled that she is having a regular senior
year and looking forward to attending college next year. She also has
two half-sisters and a half-brother, her father’s children. They
are all grown, one of them married with one child, the brother not
married and planning to attend college soon, and the one
half-sister, who has three children and who lives with Jennifer
and her husband, and Tabitha, all in a small mobile home.
I went to visit Jennifer and her family August 3-7, going to Deming and then taking the train on down. I am glad I went, glad to see my daughter and granddaughter, glad to meet my great-grandchildren, but it was not an easy trip. Trains are not really very restful. Because eight people are living in this mobile home, and several dogs and televisions, there was no real chance to just visit, and no time for me to visit alone with my daughter. We did go to Galveston to the seawall and the beach, and we went to Texas City, but the visit was short and rather hectic. I will always be glad I went, and I don’t know when I will be back, or when my daughter or granddaughter might come here. For now, the telephone will remain our way of communicating.
Excerpted from the November 2018 edition of the Operation Identity Newsletter |